Against my better judgement, I've recently joined Facebook. But I do have to admit I am enjoying the experience. It is amazing to reconnect with old friends. One friend, who I haven't seen in roughly 30 years is sending me hollyhock seeds from her grandmother's garden circa 1972. Amazing.
It is strange to see so many people from the past with present lives. Grown up with children and grandchildren. Only in my memory they are teenagers. Like living ghosts.
One old friend posted pictures of her life in North Carolina in a picture perfect log cabin in the woods with stream and dog and beautiful children. Another friend is living a glamorous life in LA. Not that I begrudge them beautiful, happy lives, but it is weird to imagine so many different life scenarios. In another reality I could totally go for that life in the woods, or that glamorous Hollywood life.
But I'm here in scrappy Staten Island in a house with jacks holding up the floors and no kitchen. And it is good. It's not glamorous or lovely, but it is good. My friend Ciro said to me the other day that he was glad he lived here because at least everything didn't look the same. I was driving down Forest Ave today thinking about that. Thinking about our visit to Las Vegas last fall. Everything in Las Vegas (outside of the strip) is beige. Beige houses, beige shopping centers, beige strip malls. Beige beige beige. Forest Ave is nothing exciting, but at least it is not beige.
Stapleton especially is anti-beige. It is dirty, gritty and beautiful. It reminds me of the east village back in the days when it looked like a war zone with crumbling down old buildings filled with junkies. Except the streets are alive with well, life. Soccer playoffs, streetball games, kids laughing, crazy people hollering, church choirs singing, people gardening...

Scott, Henry and our gardening mentor and friend, Harri boxing in the herb garden area.

Me, Harri and new friend Missy that I met on (where else?) Facebook.